Dating is a lot different than it was 40 years ago, and here’s another reason why: In the ’80s, it would’ve been a RED FLAG if someone you hadn’t met wanted to go on a hike through the woods.
Now, according to a report from a matchmaking company, first dates that involve something ACTIVE are 25% more likely to lead to a second date than meet-ups at bars, restaurants, or coffee shops.
Active dates are “anything that gets people on their feet and experiencing something new, like visiting a museum, strolling through botanical gardens, attending a concert, grabbing a bite at a food truck, or taking a cooking class.”
And hiking IS included. In fact, hiking boasts a whopping 50% success rate.
Bars used to be a popular option. Having a drink or two can relax you if you’re at a place you’re able to talk and get to know each other.
But that’s becoming less popular for EVERYONE. Boomers are the least interested in going to a bar, and Gen Z’ers see the least success following first dates at a bar.
An expert in the report said, “More singles are seeking alcohol-free ways to connect and create a space for authentic conversation and emotional chemistry to grow organically.”
Online dating apps probably contribute to this: There can be plenty of conversation about shared interests virtually. What’s lacking is a chance to get out and DO SOMETHING.
